The 3 things you should know about your Cancer birthday month. Cancer month is officially online! 🎂🦀🐭 I want to give Cancer a little birthday month love letter today: The 3 things you should know, written to the person who always takes care of others and forgets himself. Come~ Collect this exclusive tenderness🧡
1. You don’t need to take care of others all the time to be worthy of being kept
You are good at reading people’s minds, taking their feelings into consideration, and observing their expressions, but not every relationship is worth your effort. Stop taking “giving” as proof of existence. People who stay with you don’t stay because you are useful, but because you are you, and you deserve to be loved.
2. You are gentle, but you can also set boundaries
You can be kind, but that doesn’t mean you have no bottom line. You are willing to tolerate others, but that doesn’t mean you have to swallow grievances all the time. You are not an emotional trash can, nor are you everyone’s safe haven. In your birthday month, please practice “rejecting relationships that make you uncomfortable.”
3. You can also soften and cry
You have always been so well behaved and sensible. You hide your emotions so well, but in fact you are just afraid of bothering others.
But Shushu wants to say: You are also worthy of being the one who is taken care of. If you want to cry, just cry; if you want to take a step back, just take a step back. You don’t need to be strong all the time, and you won’t be hated for it.
🎂Shushu wants to say to you: Dear Cancer, happy birthday. I hope you will no longer hide your grievances in your heart this year. I hope you will meet someone who truly understands your gentleness. I also hope you will slowly learn to keep some love for yourself.
You have tried very hard to be a good person, but don’t forget that you also deserve to be treated kindly.
💬Interactive question: Which sentence do you think is most like you? Leave a message to tell Shushu~
🔘 I often care too much about other people’s feelings🔘
I will endure until I can’t bear it anymore and then explode🔘 I
am good at taking care of others, but not so good at taking care of myself🔘
I have actually been waiting for someone to understand me
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